Since death is a certain fact that in most cases would cause grief and bereavement to the deceased's family, the existence and creation of eulogies is also certain. As much as you love someone, recalling the details of their life at the time of their death is an overwhelming responsibility.
A eulogy that presents itself well is one that displays the humorous and loving nature of the deceased. In case that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, practice in front of a mirror. You need to take this time to share your loss, to laugh and talk and share your thoughts and feelings with each other.
Writing about a person who is no longer alive is very difficult and writing about their death is worse. This is a celebration of your loved ones life, you shouldn't feel that it is necessary to find poems which are too morbid, if you want something up beat and cheerful then do it. A Celebrant is trained to help individuals create and present a personalized funeral, memorial or celebration of life service.
If you are gifted with the blessing and talent of writing poetry for the dead, share it. Your relationship with your deceased loved ones did not begin and stop overnight.
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