The memory of the loved one would play a large role on how to best deliver the eulogy and will also be a good avenue for you to explore. The key word is life, and you've been given the opportunity to celebrate a loved one's life in the individual way that made your friend unique.
On the day of the funeral my uncle came and stood by my side as I read the funeral poem and I was so glad that he did, I thought that my heart was going to jump out of my chest, it was pounding that hard. We learn to cope with the situation at least temporarily. Studies show that people who have suffered losses accept their situation quickly with the help of other people who are willing to listen and help them deal with their grief.
Pulling together a selection of memories and comments about those things can be a remarkable way to begin to deal with your own grief. The family is free to participate as much or little as they wish in the funeral. They can also be given as a story of a variety of portraits of important moments, snapshots of tender times, gently humorous anecdotes, and the like.
Don't worry if it runs just a bit longer, take a deep breath and try to relax. Humor is an appropriate way to celebrate life.
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